You have a soul. It's not physical like your body. It's ethereal, like angels and spirit guides.

It knows you better than you know it, and it knows way more about everything than you do. It knows what you want most and what you came here to do and be. It wants you happy. It wants others happy. And it knows how to create that.

All you have to do is ask it for help in your life. Use your non-dominant hand to write down its answers.  Ask questions about its answers.  Do this especially if:

I keep reading this quote that says, “The hardest thing about “everything happens for a reason,” is finding the reason.”

Except it usually isn’t

In fact, it can be alarmingly simple.

But before I reveal how, let me give you an example from my own life.  Eighteen years ago, I came home to discover that my home

1.       When it looks like you’re not going to have enough money for something you desire. Decide that you do! Then see what and how it shows up.

2.       When you don’t have enough time to complete something. Decide what time you want to get done. Then get to work and be prepared to be surprised.

3.       When you can’t solve a problem. Decide you get it solved anyway. Then allow it all to fall into place.

Sometimes life overloads me. There’s too much going on, or there’s crazy energy disrupting the peace. You know what I mean?
   Those times are just ripe for escalation. When there’s too much going on, mistakes get made, which means even more stuff is going on. Or, when crazy energy’s disrupting the peace, it’s so easy to go into our corners or be reactive. Either way, we’re creating even more crazy, disruptive energy.
   So what are we to do?

10 times to remember you’re magic.

1. You’re late: Snap your fingers and decide you’re getting there on time (regardless of all the signs that suggest otherwise, and regardless of whether that means everyone else will be late). Let your magic do its work.

2. You want to eat, but you’re not hungry: First, snap your fingers and ask yourself what you really want instead. Then, snap your fingers again and decide that you have whatever it is that you want.

1.    If you’re putting off doing a dreary chore, decide how much time it will take you, see the clock in your mind, and see the finished task in your mind. Feel it! Then get to work and get it off your shoulders.

2.    If you’re going to a party or meeting, and you’re worried about people not accepting you, visualize their faces greeting you with big smiles and/or understanding faces. See them lean in toward you because of their interest in you. Visualize yourself so full of light, people can’t take their eyes off you.

    My friend Rose used to always want to be happy. If we, “her friends aren’t happy, then she’s not happy.” That was a direct quote.
   But there was also this part of her that really loved to be right. When she said certain people would never like or accept her, there was no talking her out of it, or at least it was pretty hard. If she thought someone was cheating her, which was often, she’d do everything in her power to prove her point. She’d argue on and on in an effort to be right.
   Usually the stuff she knew she was right about had to do with old beliefs. 

   “Don’t look back.”
   “Your past is just a story.”
   When I read these well-meaning posts, I kind of shudder.          Your past is a huge part of what creates your future, whether you realize it or not, and whether you want it to or not. Why?

Elephant’s memory

   Your ego, fortunately, is designed to have a very long memory. 

   Before you read this, think of three people you admire. These can be real people, or characters from films or books. Just make sure they’re people YOU admire. Forget what your friends or family think. This is about YOU.  In the alchemy of your life, the people you choose for role models have a lot to do with your potential and your life purpose.
   These people can be quite different from each other. For example, two of my role models are Cher and Anwar Sadat.
   Now you can start thinking about how your role models benefit

       Kelsye Nelson’s tweet of yesterday morning seized me by my shoulders.
   As a recovering, but not recovered, procrastinator, I saw her “Completion is power,” tweet’s finger pointing right at me. (And as a practicing dyslexic, it took me minute to realize that I’d misread the quote as originally found on Gretchen Rubin’s