Great but simple relationship help: Use your imagination!

   Your relationships are great when they’re going well, but when they’re going downhill, you and everyone involved suffers to some extent. It matters not what kind of relationship (work, romance, friendship, family, neighborhood, etc.) is suffering, when people can’t get along, it creates some level of physical, emotional, and psychic to those involved.

    From experience, you know that solving relationship problems takes time, patience, understanding, and a willingness to resolve the issue. You probably also know that if one side lacks any of those four, resolving the issue grows harder. And if the other side lacks all

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four, well, you might as well give up.

    I’m here to offer you help for those times when a relationship of your suffers because the other side lacks time, patience, understanding, or a willingness to resolve the issue.

    In short, here’s what to do:

1.       Ask yourself what you fear regarding the relationship.  Are you being used, bullied, lied to, or stolen from? Do you feel you deserve an apology for something done to you? You may come up with several answers.

2.       Next, ask yourself what you want instead, but don’t just say the opposite of what you fear. In other words, don’t say “I don’t want to be bullied.” Instead, dig deep and figure out how you want to feel. Perhaps you want to feel that you’re respected by the other side. Or you want to feel that you’re being treated fairly by them.  Whatever it is you want, don’t assume you have to know how to make it happen. In fact, you probably don’t. But that doesn’t matter. Just figure out what intention makes you feel good just thinking about it.

3.       Last, ask yourself how you want the other side to feel so they too are happy. Perhaps if the other side has lied, you want them to feel comfortable and pleased to tell you the truth. Or if the other side has been a bully, you might want them to feel comfortable in their own skin and that they feel good about themselves (bullies usually are not very happy people). Don’t worry about knowing exactly what they need and how they’ll get it. All you have to do is set the intention. You know you’ve got it right when it makes YOU feel good thinking about it.

4.       Then say out loud, “This is what I want to create. (State what you want for you and the other side.)” Then go about your day or week, remembering the feeling you want to experience. Allow your creative energy to create it. It may happen quickly, or it may take a week or two. Get out of the way and trust that your energy will create it. If you doubt it, your energy will create that too, which would be counterproductive.

5.       If you want, let me know what happens. ([email protected])

6.       And if you want to become really good at creating happiness and good for yourself and others, read The Happiness Path.  As a recent reader wrote to me, “. . . I am very familiar with many of the concepts you outline. However, I have never seen them amalgamated into such a practical sequence before. What a helpful book you have created! I have really enjoyed reading it and now plan on going back and working your program with one of my own issues.”

Thank you for reading! Please share with your friends. You never know who it'll help or delight.

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